Friday, July 29, 2005 


Who could this be?

Wednesday, July 27, 2005 

The Hayden Household

After my recent three and a half week gallivant around the country that took me from Missouri, to Kansas, to Texas, to California, back to Texas, and then back to Kansas for a week, and finally returning to Missouri this past Monday, it is good to be back home and not traveling. Yet, I find myself still thinking about one very wonderful and memorable aspect of my travels, my week-long visit with the Hayden family. What a blessing their family is, and what an incredible testimony they are to the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

I want to send a special thanks to each member of the Hayden household for their warm hospitality in allowing me to invade their everyday life with my often direct and slightly bizarre personality. They were gracious to me and allowed me to pontificate at will, and went out of their way to make me feel welcomed in their home.

My entire time with the family had a great impact on my life and I am grateful to the Lord for providing the circumstances in His providence that allowed me to visit them. I thoroughly enjoyed getting to know each member of the family and appreciated being able to observe how each member worked together in the many facets that create a Christ honoring household.

My entire visit with their household gave me a greater appreciation for the indelible, CS Hayden as well. He is truly a gifted man, cultivated from a unique and remarkable family. I look forward to many years of fellowship with the Hayden household.

Again, a special thanks to the Hayden family for being a blessing to my life and a testimony of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.

 

The Future of Medical Ethics

Tim Horn, sent me the following article. After you read the article, feel free to comment on this post if you so choose.

Roe v. Wade v. technology

Christians must be aware of the future of medical technology, both the dangers and benefits that can be found in such. We must study now to be prepared for generations yet to be born, and we must not settle for cultural relevance but strive to think in terms of scripture, regardless of how complicated or simple the issues that we will face.

 

Life Purpose, and the Mid-Life Crisis of Profession as Life Purpose

Every man will be destroyed if he does not redeem the time wisely that the Lord has given to him, and shape his time and life around the Lordship of Jesus Christ, basing every thought around the scripture and its infallible patterns of truth. This is our starting point as Christians when thinking through the issue of how we shape our paths and live out the proper roles that we have been given on this earth.

As a young man, I have been required, (just as every young man is), to think about the issue of “What am I going to do with my life?”, and how am I going to structure my time and ultimately my entire life as it relates to the work that I have been called to fulfill on this earth.

I am thankful and grateful to say that as I continually seek the truth of God’s word, and listen to the guidance of my father and several mentors that the Lord has placed in my path, this question has been answered in my life in its broad reaching scope. Although many of the details are still being revealed and will continue to be for the entirety of my life, I do have a broader sense of purpose and mission as to the goals and foundational principles that will guide how I live my time, what skills I will continue to develop, and how I will apply those in the context of my unique circumstances. I am grateful to the Lord for His grace in allowing this continued process to take place in my heart and life. I am most grateful to the Lord because I realize that this pattern is not the cultural norm today, as our culture has embraced the many false philosophies pertaining to the roles of manhood. Men that understand their life purpose filtered through the grid of scripture are few-and-far between, and because this is not a cultural norm, men that are seeking to honor the holy scriptures as to their life purpose are often mocked and ridiculed for their unique decisions as to how they live out their time. Yet, regardless of what others may think, and regardless of the cultural uniqueness of the decisions a man makes pertaining to his life purpose, the question of life purpose is, without a doubt, one of the most profound questions that a man will ask himself and his creator. Ultimately, depending on how a man answers this question, his life will either result in great victory or great tragedy.

The victory comes in Christ and living a life set apart to obedience in Christ when a man understands his roles on this earth and lives for a calling of facilitating dominion to every area of life. This begins with choices as a young man as to how a life is shaped regarding the books, training, jobs, and relationships that a young man chooses to engage himself in. This manifests itself in a mid-life spent with twenty, thirty, or forty plus years of wise training and preparation to take dominion on this earth for the Lord Jesus Christ, and will be fulfilled in the unique callings and gifts that have been cultivated toward the kingdom work. As a biblical life purpose is fulfilled, a man will bless his family by providing them with true purpose as they carry forward what has been laid as a foundation through years spent educating and training to fulfill a biblical life purpose. Sons will honor their fathers by walking in unity with them as they have an equal understanding as to the life calling that has been given as a legacy to them. This ultimately ends in a man looking back on his life with great fulfillment as he sees the next generation carrying forward what God set in motion and begins to realize that the entire encapsulation of life was the fulfillment of his life purpose – from new beginnings, the wonderful years of dominion battle in between, and the ultimate twilight of life and passing to the next generation. The results? A life-time of faithfulness and peace.

The tragedy comes when a man views his life purpose in terms of his chosen profession and makes his chief end the cultivation of that profession. Men train to become a profession, this profession becomes their life purpose, their families lives center around their choices in this life purpose, and their economic dependence also centers around what they have been trained to view as their purpose in life. All aspects of life center on this false life purpose. It starts at a young age when a man decides how he is going shape his life regarding the books, training, jobs, and relationships that a he chooses to engage himself in. Even as the tragedy begins at a young age, it manifests itself when a man begins the mid-portion of his life, when reality begins to set in that there is no fulfillment in what he has spent the last twenty, thirty, or forty plus years living in as his life purpose, and that his choices have caught up with him to a point that he will be overwhelmed with bondage and may never, (accept by the grace of almighty God), be free of the false notion of life purpose that he bought into in years prior. The greatest tragedy is that if a man accepts this false understanding of life purpose, he will not be able, (Again, accept by the grace of almighty God), to pass on a biblical example to his sons of what it is to be a faithful man in a life purpose. He can point his sons in the right direction, tell them of his mistakes, but because of the choices of the past, he will become so entrenched in a life-time spent with false purpose that he will be unable to escape his slavery to a point of oneness with his sons and their futures. Additionally, the entire education process of the home becomes something he is unable to grasp in true Biblical terms because more than half of his life has been spent focusing on shaping his own education and life purpose around his profession. The burden then falls strictly on the shoulders of the mother, thus negating the father’s role as leader in the training and education of the children and defying what the scriptures instruct fathers to fulfill. (Deuteronomy 4:9) This is assuming that the family is educating their children at home and not in unbiblical state educational institutions. (This is another conversation for another time.)

And what is the ultimate result of a life-time of having a profession as a life purpose? Tragedy through retirement. Retirement is not a biblical concept and it is the logical conclusion to a life-time spent in making a profession a ultimate purpose. Retirement is frivolity and ultimate waste to the end of a life. Taking the twilight of a life and spending it for personal pleasure rather than godly discipleship to the next generation. Yet, it is the ultimate conclusion to a life purpose that centers on a profession. After a life-time given to the life purpose of profession, a man then looks back on his life with no fulfillment in his profession. He then retires to a life of ease and is left with no sense of true purpose for having lived it, and without the intervention of the providential hand of God, his children have no sense or understanding as to what they have carried forward and will focus on their own false sense of life purpose. The results? multi-generational tragedy and regret.

These harsh realities plague the body of Christ today, and they should sober our minds and make us cry out to God for mercy and grace as we seek to honor him in answering the important question “What am I going to do with my life?”.

We serve a God that is greater than our sinful mistakes and can restore the years that the “locust hath eaten” (Joel 2:25). With Christ all things are possible. We must not be afraid to face the truth and see the tragic choices that so many Christians have made in our day and age, and we must fix our hearts on the Lord and pray for the grace to continue to walk the straight and narrow path of truth. May God be glorified as we seek His word to fulfill our life purpose on this earth.

Monday, July 25, 2005 

A Father’s Farewell to His Son

A Reminder to Us of the Preciousness of Time

Note: I wrote this article several years ago, shortly after the mentioned events took place. Today, as I was making a return trip from Kansas to Missouri, I passed by the area where these events took place and was reminded of the article that I had written. I am posting this on my blog in the hope that these words will be used to motivate my brothers and sisters in Christ to redeem the time and invest their lives in the battle that each of us face in the kingdom work.

Several months ago, I witnessed a tragedy that forever changed my perspective on the time that I have been given on this earth.

During an evening drive on an icy Missouri highway, I was waved to the side of the road to help at the scene of a car accident. As I approached the accident, I saw a truck flipped over in the ditch with a man who appeared to be around forty years old propping up the neck of a little boy about the age of ten.

After the paramedics were called at the request of the man holding on so tightly to the little boy, I was asked to call the grandmother of the little boy to inform her of the accident so she would be aware of what had taken place. Not knowing all the details or anything about the lives of the people involved, I continued to be of any help that I could. As I watched the man talk to the little boy and rub his shoulders in attempt to keep him warm, the boy began to mumble something under his breath and the man replied with "Daddy's here, son." It then became clear to me that this little boy was being held by his father. I began to see the concern in his father's face as his son lay cold and in pain in the snowy ditch along the side of this remote highway.

Shortly after the realization of the circumstances began to sink into my thoughts, the little boy stopped moving which prompted his father to attempt resuscitation on him which lasted for several minutes. The little boy was not responding as his father moved his limp body around trying to revive him.

I stood prayerfully on the side of the highway watching this event take place as it was slowly being etched into my mind. About five minutes had passed and it had become clear that none of the efforts were helping revive this man's son.

Several seconds later, I witnessed this little boy take his last breath followed by his teary-eyed father looking up at me, unable to grasp what had just happened. The father of this boy began to scream over and over, "Please don't leave me, my baby. Daddy needs you" as he grasped his son's lifeless body.

After the paramedics had arrived and there was no need for me to be there anymore, I began to drive back home, crying and seeking the Lord as how to better understand this horrible event that I had just witnessed. Thoughts began to flood my mind and slowly I began to see how treasured every relationship is that God places in our path. I then began to tearfully realize the importance of the time that God has given each of us.

Oh, friends, how important it is to invest time wisely and direct the lives of your children in the truth of God's Word. God has given us dominion over the time that He has appointed to us. So often we neglect to remember that every moment in our lives is to be used for the glory of our Heavenly Father. Remember that every second -- yet every nanosecond -- is not to be wasted or misused but is appointed by God.

Dear parents, hug the necks of your little ones and be grateful that your heavenly Father has entrusted you with the time to disciple them to be warriors for the Lord Jesus Christ. Neglect not the joy and the responsibility of training up future generations for Christ.

Let us remember that we are responsible for standing for truth in an age of lies. The world considers the life of a Christian to be a waste of time and a biblical worldview to have no real value. In a society based around humanism, it is of utmost importance not to waste a moment of our lives neglecting our God-appointed responsibilities, but rather investing our time wisely in things that have true purpose.

Be encouraged that your Heavenly Father is in control and do not waste another moment. As Paul says in second Timothy, "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith." Let us fight the good fight and neglect not the responsibilities of our day. When we come to the end of the race, may we look back on our lives and know that we have invested our time wisely by proclaiming Jesus Christ through the many generations that will come after us.

I give glory to God for the truth that can be found in Scripture and know that no matter how horrible a circumstance may seem, we can give glory in every situation. I trust that it is an encouragement to each of you to know that the Lord has blessed you with time and I pray that you wisely invest it for the glory of your Heavenly Father.

Thursday, July 21, 2005 


More than a broom is required

Monday, July 18, 2005 

The Zoo Excursion

The below photos were taken during my recent trip to San Antonio. During my week long visit, the Lord allowed me to go to the San Antonio zoo with some of my dearest friends. I lived in San Antonio for just over two years and never took the opportunity to visit the zoo, so on my return visit to San Antonio, a trip to the zoo was a priority for me. The combination of the wonderful fellowship, the historic sense of the San Antonio zoo exhibits, and the joy that the Huber children brought to the time, made for some wonderful memories.

 


Tim was very excited about going to the zoo

 


CS and Baby Jane

 


Birds of a feather...

 


Hmmmm

 


"Hey, can I have a dollar?"

 


The ladies

 


A very heavy sun visor

 


Baby Jane attempts to escape the tiger exhibit

 


Nathan Barnes provides transportation for baby Jane

 


Careful, don't get too close

 


Tim with his classy zoo hat

 


Feeding the birds

 


Pretty bird!

 


A picture being taken, of a picture being taken

 


Hmm, no comment

 


Nice tie

 


Must be a republican

 


Miss Huber smiles for the camera

 


Two fine young ladies

 


Don't do it, Nathan!

 


A rather interesting zoo exhibit.

 


Looking good, Sir Torres!

 


Looking good rhino!